The following are things I have learnt over the years from making bookings to looking at where to eat.
It’s not an exhaustive list but a set of guide points I use when planning a trip.
There have been many stories written about Trip Adviser including the fake reviews and hotels getting higher rates if booked through them – including other travel sites – but it does remain one of the best sites to find hotels, restaurants and other information – including about sites.
With anything, you apply a grain of salt to what you might be seeing in a review. If someone complains that the drinks weren’t cold (a comment that was made about an amazing eco-lodge we stayed at in Rwanda that was solar powered), include a photo of any minute problem they can find in a hotel room, or complain that they didn’t get a balcony room – then it’s always good to apply a degree of skepticism about what their experience may have been, that perhaps they have an unrealistic expectation when they travel or what their motivation may have been for the comments.
Trip Adviser have been very public in their efforts to stop fake reviews or vexatious comments and allowing hotels and accommodation o respond to some comments is very useful to get both sides of the story.
I continue to use it including reviews of my own. I think only once have I left a ‘bad’ review for something as I genuinely want to highlight the positives of travel and the fact – as I have said – there is something wonderful about anywhere you travel to. What I typically do is – for example – when I am looking at hotels is that I do a general search, use a site like Expedia or country and city websites and have a look at Trip Adviser to see what people have written about it. Some of the best hotels I have stayed at I have found through Trip Adviser and also good recommendations for buying tickets, when to go to sites and good locations for restaurants, as examples.
There is just about always a degree of bias when anyone comments on a travel experience as we all experience a place differently and sometimes when you have bad experiences with a hotel, restaurant, airline or anything else, it impacts your whole experience of a place. Sites like Trip Adviser at the very least provide a guide and comments by other travelers that can assist you in planning your trip.
There are many websites around through which to book travel, but Expedia is probably the most reliable I have used. It has been around for a long time and partners with reliable travel organisations. Before I started using Trip Adviser I did a search on travel booking websites and Trip Adviser was universally seen as being one of the most reliable, well-established and trusted sites. There are others such as Webjet and Skyscanner – both of which I will also often check and have used Skyscanner, but I find the search feature and general features of Trip Adviser the best.
Occasionally I have found that Trip Adviser will provide certain options particularly when doing fights searches and I understand they have partnership with certain airlines so that isn’t unexpected. On some occasions if I know I want to travel with a particular airline for reasons related to stop-overs there or on the way back or because I am looking to in get frequent flyer points, I will book directly trough an airlines site. That is therefore another option as they will also give you accommodation suggestions. Again Trip Adviser generally provides a wider set of options.
One thing I did l learn however, post-COVID-19, was that sometimes when you use these sites, you might be purchasing a flight etc. from a third party website. I learnt this when havign to try and get a refund for a flight due to COVID-19 and it was a drama. I will now, when I can, book directly through an airline if I know for sure I want to travel with them. I will still use a site, like Expedia, if i want to compare flights. Theer is also of course the option of using a travel agent if you have a more complex booking.
I remain a loyal follower of Lonely Planet guides – from the country, city to pocket guides. I took Lonely Planet when I was backpacking and using their shoestring guides and continue to use them now that I am no longer a backpacker.
To be honest, I haven’t really looked wider than Lonely Planet when it comes to actual guidebooks, but I have browsed others. I continue to find Lonely Planet the best in terms of providing a good mix of history; travel tips and need to know information such as currency, getting about, cultural awareness; a mix of restaurants, shopping and accommodation from cheaper to boutique options; and maps.
Like all guides by the time the make it to your hands some information may already be out of date and I have found that with some of the Lonely Planet guides but that is always to be expected.
Lonely Planet have the option of having hard copy, book guides or electronic version. I still like the old fashion books as you can read them whenever you want and I still love to have them on the shelf to look at the places I have been and remind myself yes I actually did go there – when it you have returned and it all feels like a dream.
The Lonely Planet website also has very good summary information which is worthwhile looking at.
Another good source of information including for accommodation and sites, museums, restaurants etc. are city-based and country-based websites. Many will often have list of accommodation, suggested restaurants, sites and national or regional public holidays, or provide links for information. The information on sites is very useful as it will advise about needing to book tickets in advance and advise on sites in general.
These are some very good websites I have used:
It’s obviously just coincidence but we seem to be travelling to a country when there is a major protest occurring.
It happened in Delhi, India after the horrific rape and death of a young woman on a bus and there were huge protests which shut off parts of the city; Thailand at the time of the protests against the Government – we encountered the teachers and public servants on the Sky Train and saw the most ever riot police I have seen a huge barbed wire being rolled out; Mexico City when families of the 23 students marched against their disappearance; London at the time of Parliament Brexit votes with big gatherings outside Parliament; central America having just left Cuba when Obama announced the end of sanctions (since reintroduced by Trump); Cambodia when they were having ‘win, win’ day – well the Khmer Rouge did bad but they are now in government so it’s all ok; and the home of the climate strike in Stockholm when it was happening.
I am a political person and was very involved in politics for many years, but as with remembering that a place is someone’s home and respecting that, it’s also important – I think – to admire and maybe give a nod to people when you see them being actively political, but again respecting you don’t know the full reasons for what is happening and not being a foreigner getting involved.
I know this is a vexed subject, but it is one of judgment, including about the actual politics of the country. Bearing witness and talking about it or writing about is a way of still raising awareness without putting yourself and the people protesting in a dangerous situation.
I did most of my early travel as a single woman. My first ever big trip as an adult – I will admit – was a Contiki tour, the type of trip with 20 countries in 20 days. I am not denigrating Contiki at all as for many it’s just what they want – you see a lot in a short time, everything is organised and it’s reasonably affordable. It wasn’t for me – I like to get out and explore, see museums and galleries, try different food. But I learnt that from doing this trip.
As single woman traveller, you do have to take into consideration – unfortunately – anywhere you go be it Australia, Europe or India, being in situations where your safety isn’t compromised. After my first trio and knowing it wasn’t for me, I backpacked on my own through Europe, England, Ireland and Scotland and met up with friends in Morocco. I was fortunate in one of my first stops to meet up with two female friends who were travelling together and had already sussed out the backpacking travel scene and gave me invaluable tips, Sandra and Belinda I still remember you lovely people. One thing about staying in hostels was that you did meet a lot of people and ended up travelling with them together some days.
I travelled a fair bit by train – as it was quicker and more convenient – I only travelled during the day and didn’t travel via overnight trains. Another good option is hop on, hop off buses where you can get a pass and travel to various countries across Europe. I did this in England, Ireland and Scotland and it was a good way to travel. There are typically schedules for these buses which does mean you have to look at how many days you can stay in a place, but they are another affordable option.
After backpacking across Europe I wanted to expand my travel experiences and ventured to Vietnam. Vietnam is obviously now a well-travelled destination. I went in 1989 when it was starting to open up as a travel destination. This is when I discovered Intrepid – small group, adventure tours. I travelled with Intrepid 3 more times after my first trip with them – to Nepal and India; Laos, Cambodia and Thailand; and the Middle East – Egypt, Jordan, Syria and Turkey. We have also done many of their Urban Adventures – which are city, based day and shorter tours.
I found Intrepid excellent in that you still travelled by local transport such as bus and train, but had that support of a small group and guide to help you get from A to B; you stay in small, interesting accommodation; and visit places you possibly wouldn’t find or feel able to find as a solo traveler. You also don’t have to go on a particular activity if you don’t want and have free days to do what you would like.
As a single female traveler, I chose to travel with Intrepid as travelling to countries where you don’t know the language, where public transport isn’t as accessible or available, and which is very different to where you live, it just gave some peace of mind and made the travel experience possibly much more enjoyable. I give major props to women who travel on their own in countries a bit off the usual tourist path!! Many of the intrepid trips I have done have had female guides in countries such as India, Laos and Cambodia and through the Middle East.
The main tips I would have as a single female traveler are:
For example, the US has the Visa Waiver Program (VWP) which allows nationals of certain countries, including Australia, New Zealand, and the United Kingdom, to travel to the United States for tourism or business for stays of 90 days or less without obtaining a visa, if certain requirements are met. However, all nationals and citizens of the Visa Waiver Program (VWP) countries, including Australia, are required to obtain a travel authorisation prior to initiating travel to the United States. This is the Electronic System for Travel Authorization which is obtained through the Department of Homeland Security website. This information is now much clearer on the US Consulate website but previously it only had the first set of information about not needing a visa. We were travelling via the US before going to Central America and Cuba and got caught as we didn’t think we needed a Visa. The wonderful staff at Qantas at Canberra airport sorted us out and made us feel better telling us they assisted people with this just about every day. Anyway, it was a lesson for me – who is a seasoned traveller – to double check these requirements.
Once upon a time when I first started travelling it was all about the hostel and if I wanted to really splurge, a B&B (usually with a shared bathroom). Times have changed and it’s now about boutique, interesting hotels and apartments – if staying somewhere for a few days and nights. I try to look for boutique hotels if I can as typically they will be locally run. When we went to Venice we were completely shocked by the numbers of people there – I had read about it but is was another thing to experience it – particularly the massive cruise ships ferrying people around sites during the days and then disappearing back to the ships and not actually spending in local businesses. When we were speaking to a staff member at the lovely little hotel we were staying at we said we felt bad because we were adding to the swarms. However, she said you are doing it the right way – you are staying at a small, locally run hotel, eating out at local restaurants – you’re supporting local business. I try to apply that ethos as much as possible when we travel.
Youth Hostel International and Youth Hostels Australia – These were the main source of information for me about hostels in different countries. At the time when I was staying at hostels there was a guidebook to hostels around the world and in peak times, bookings like for hotels was important. Bookings can be made on the Hostels International website.
Websites such as Trip Adviser and Expedia are good guides for searching for accommodation as you can see tips or reviews from other travelers – always applying the grain of salt. Airline websites are also useful, noting there are likely to be accommodation deals that they have with particular accommodations. One of the best hotels I have stayed at – Hotel Mume in Kyoto, Japan – I found through Trip Adviser and didn’t find it via any other website.
One of my favourite sites is Mr and Mrs Smith. They provide boutique and interesting accommodation options across different price ranges. I have used them many times and I find them extremely reliable in terms of quality and the information provided. Every hotel I have booked through them has been of top quality. They – like other sites – most likely have certain hotels that are promoted, but again the quality available through them I have found absolutely excellent.
Small Luxury Hotels are basically about what their name says, small, luxury hotels. I have found them to have options that are more expensive then available on a website like Mr. and Mr. Smith.
Boutique Hotel Me is another available source of information. Some of the hotels promoted on there I haven’t always found to be ‘boutique’ in that sometimes they have larger, chain hotels. However, I have found hotels on there I haven’t found elsewhere.
Fairbnb.coop – I first read about Fairbnb in an article in the travel magazine for The Age. As it is described on the website, it is a cooperative booking platform that also promotes and funds local initiatives and projects. It started in Venice, Amsterdam and Bologna, and has now expanded across Europe.
Like other platforms they charge a commission, half goes to Fairbnb and the other half goes to funding community projects. You can register as a host, a traveler and projects. As a traveler you register and book your stay, choose a project to donate your fee, a request is sent to the host, and your booking is confirmed or denied by the host.
You need to register an account to be able to search for accommodation options. It doesn’t list what countries are available – you need to find this out by searching for a city or country.
I haven’t used the platform, but if we are travelling to any of the destinations will absolutely give it a go.
Airbnb – I have used Airbnb in the past but apply a degree of caution now given the problems that have happened particularly in European countries. The impact on places such as Venice has been very negative. With anything, use judgment and consider if it’s appropriate depending on where you are going.
Way to Stay – This is another website that provides apartment accommodation options in European cites and some other countries. I used them when we travelled to Paris, Spain and Portugal, and in 2019 for Berlin. The information provided in the apartments will very much be dependent on the owners and manager – this can therefore ne good and not so good. The customer support is also a bit hit and miss. However, the quality of the apartments themselves that I have booked through them has been consistently good.
Plum Guides – I recently came across them. The tag line is ‘stay in the world’s most remarkable homes’ and that there is no time for average. I haven’t used them before but did some research and found a write-up on them and the appear very reliable. The homes available do look great and a range of prices, although slightly on the more pricey end. They are currently in limited locations, but I will check them out in the future.
Our last few trips I have organized myself. One thing I do like doing is doing day or half day tours that show you sites where you might need a guide, will see parts of a place you may not fund on your own and of course, eat and try food you won’t find as a tourist.
There are a range of tours available. The tour company I have used the most is Urban Adventures which are – basically as the name says – short day, half day or a few hours tours in cities. I have travelled many times with Intrepid itself when I was a woman travelling on my own and have now used Urban Adventures many times. I have found them to be very reliable and good and like the fact they used local based guides. I have only once had a not very positive experience and when I wrote to Urban Adventures about this, they were very responsive and good about it.
I first came across Ute Biefang in an article in the travel section of the Sydney Morning Herald where the writer was in Paris and did a city tour with Ute. We were planning a trip to Paris and Spain and got in touch with Ute as one of the big focuses of Ute’s tours was food. Ute is what you would a call a citizen of the world – Ute was born in Germany and had lived in Berlin, Argentina and Paris and had been the producer of the Melbourne Food and Wine Festival.
We booked a day tour with Ute in Paris and also took up the service of having a restaurant booking made. The tour with Ute in Paris was an absolute highlight of our whole trip. Her insights not only about food but about the hidden history and stories of Paris were wonderful. Ute customises tours for each person depending on your interests. I basically said we were interested in seeing different parts of the city and food. Ute took us through the wonderful covered passages, different neighbourhoods and again things you would never find on your own. Two streets back form the Pigalle is a wonderous local street with food – who would have known otherwise!?
Along the way Ute talked to us about a new foodie area of Paris where many refugees and migrants had moved and where the South American influence had seen shops painted in different bright colours. We said that sounded interesting and so we changed trains and headed off to this fabulous area. Ute took us to an outdoor food hall for lunch, to a beautiful chocolate shop and patisserie and recommended places to go afterwards – we returned to a local bistro for a very Parisian bistro dinner.
Ute is where I first found out about the top 50 restaurants. Ute had liked them because they are more about the food then about the décor. Ute booked us for dinner at Le Chateaubriand. It was such a wonderful dining experience where the waiters delivered each meal and lovingly described it to you. There was no menu and it was degustation as the food varied daily depending on what was fresh and seasonal. My only wish was that we had toured with Ute earlier in our trip – a tip I have now done with other trips so you get to know the neighbourhoods and good eating places early. Ute also gave the advice that a smaller menu is a good thing as they will know how to cook those things really well rather than a menu which has 100 dishes from 100 different cuisines.
We went to Berlin in 2019 and I thought I would look up to see what Ute was doing – knowing that she was from Berlin. Wonderfully, Ute was in Berlin and I found the Ute in Berlin website! We spent a wonderful day – our first full day in Berlin – with Ute. Even though it rained most of the day, Ute took us to parts of the city which showed the fascinating history of Berlin, beautiful art deco building now a hotel with a stunning swimming pool, a once Jewish girls school that had been restored and turned into an arts and restaurant complex, Hackesche Hofe an art deco courtyard complex with shops, cafes and theatres, and of course took us to and showed us wonderful cafes and eateries, including Lindner which had seriously delicious take home food, breads and pastries. Ute also booked us two great restaurant experiences including the beautiful Katz Orange.
After we went to Paris I told people they must do a tour with Ute if traveling to Paris and I know many of them did. I will be doing the same now for Berlin! Ute truly is in a category of her own. Her passion for food, architecture and history makes any day with Ute not just a tour but an experience which makes a visit to a city a truly wonderful experience!
A big part of travel is the food, in fact not just a big part! Food is the window to the soul of a country – it tells you so much about the history, influences, lifestyle, and celebrations. Whether it’s a market, street food, or a restaurant it gives you the opportunity to be with locals. Don’t stay in your hotel and eat Italian if you are staying in KL (overheard by someone who was eating at a Malaysian restaurant in Canberra and had just been in Malaysia!!!???).
The experience of eating somewhere different, trying different foods and being somewhere wonderful and with locals is truly a experience that can’t be beaten. An open-air BBQ restaurant in Saigon in a fairy light lit garden; a place that cooks fish on the BBQ where you eat at big communal tables in a courtyard garden in Lisbon surrounded by locals looking out from their balconies; a farm to table café in the middle of the city in Phnom Pehn where chickens scratch around your feet; in a village in Laos somewhere not far from the border of Cambodia by the Mekong River eating a literal interpretation of fish soup – a river fish sitting whole in your broth – accompanied by a cold Beer Laos; a top 50 restaurant in Paris where the waiter explains each dish that comes to your table with great passion and care; a bustling four floor okonomiyaki food hall where each vendor promotes and beckons you to their stall and you pick the one screening the game of the Carp baseball team; picking different items for dinner from stalls at the central food Mercato Centrale in Florence with a glass of Italian wine; eating whole eggplant with tahini and garlic that has been cooked fresh in a big stone oven at a French Lebanese café in Mahane Yahuda. And the list goes on!!
Yes you do need to be careful – our delicate, Western stomachs are used to different water, foods and this can lead to ‘unpleasantness’. I have made the mistake myself in India. I had been travelling there for 3 weeks without any problems, eating local and street food and then I let my guard down and ate noodles with vegetables at a hotel. Sounds innocuous enough but it no doubt would have been sitting there for a long time and being in a hotel you can’t see how it’s cooked. I absolutely knew better – eat the local food and if it’s street food, eat what you can see being cooked. I woke up early the next morning with what looked and sounded like an alien trying to burst out of my stomach – needless to say it was a couple of days I could have done without.
But again, it’s all about research, eating where there are lots of locals, getting recommendations, and eating what people know to cook. Doing a tour is a fantastic way of finding out about great places to eat. Learning from experience I have found that doing such a tour the first day you are in a place then means you can go back and try places that are recommended or look great and it’s also a wonderful way to help orient you to a place. You will also find out about great markets so if you’re on a budget, you can tale food back to your hotel or apartment and cook, have a picnic or have a little feast on the train, but you are still finding out about local ingredients and places to shop.
Don’t be afraid to get out there! Just staying in your hotel or apartment and not experiencing the heart of a place – its food – means you will miss out on so much that is wonderful!!
Food Tours:
The top 50 list is a great guide for restaurants all around the world. It also extends to the 100 best and now has lists for Asia and Latin America. The prices will vary from mid-range to super expensive and exclusive – the invite only concept is one I struggle with – but eating at one of these restaurants is an unforgettable experience.
Whenever we are a travelling somewhere, I will scan the list for restaurants of cities we are visiting. Sometimes they are way out of a spending range – the restaurants on the list in Japan particularly Tokyo are mostly prohibitive – but we have been to a number of them including in Mexico City, Tokyo (I had to get down to about 90 before it was within an reasonable range), Paris and Bangkok. It’s a once off, special occasion experience but as I said, all the top 50 restaurants we have been to have been a wonderful experience.
One of the best ways to experience a city and its food is to explore markets. This can be markets where you can try things and take home things to eat later, sit down and have a meal or snack, or experience a local markets where locals do their shopping – these are always a colourful and educational experience!
Often people are reluctant to eat at markets but one of the things about them is that you can see what people are making or cooking right there in front of you. The food is always – or mostly – fresh. A way to explore markets is to do a tour with a local guide who can give you advice on what is good to eat.
I absolutely love a food market! It is quite literally one of my favourite things to do when visiting towns, cities and countries. We typically end up going back to markets more than once when we are staying somewhere for a few days to eat at different places or get provisions, particularly if we are staying in an apartment. They are a wonderful way to experience a city as you will have many locals there as well along with tourists.
You will see and smell things you may not have seen before, and at an Indian or Vietnamese market see that no part of an animal isn’t worth displaying in the open and no part will get wasted!
These are some of my favourites from different parts of the world.
Chatuchak Weekend Market, Bangkok
Other great markets are:
KL
Florence
Boqueria, Barcelona
Guatemala
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